Monday, November 24, 2008

HONEYMOON!

Something VERY unexpected happened today...but before I get into the details I better give some background info...

Every year, Hope College raises money for the DeVos Children's Hospital in Grand Rapids. It is our biggest fundraiser of the year...in fact, last year Hope College students raised over $112,000! However, getting to this amount takes the whole year. They throw almost bi-weekly events at the college and in the community. One of their bigger money events is the live and silent auction they hold.

And this is where Brent and I come in. Even though we are quite busy with all of our studies we thought it would be nice to go support Dance Marathon by visiting the auction tonight. Neither of us have ever been to an auction, so we were also a little curious. While looking at all the items up for bid, we saw that someone was donating a week-long timeshare in Orlando, FL, originally priced at $1500. Although, it seemed interesting, we did not take much time to speculate. We are cheap-skates and knew that this one would cost a pretty penny. But, then Wilma, my advisor and friend, kind of convinced us that it would be a good honeymoon deal. So, we decided to stick around...

The Timeshare was the second to last item, so we had to wait the hour and a half to get to it. In the mean time we each bought a picture frame and canvas. Mine is of Mother Teresa, and Brent's is of a beach chair (both very GOOD deals!). Then finally it was time to bid on the Timeshare. We both had decided that we would not go over $400, so we waited to see if it would get that low. The auction-eer started off at $1000, then went down to $850, then $700...$500, $400, and finally $300, so we nervously raised our number. But someone outbid us and went to $325, so we went to $350, then they went to $355, so we went to $375. Then there was a long pause...no one raised their numbers, and Brent and I both started to get nervous. Were we going to get it? How much longer? Is anyone going to outbid us? And then SOLD!!! We had won the timeshare for $375!!!

Ha ha! How crazy is that?!!? We also talked to the girl whose parents donated the timeshare, and she told us that we could exchange it for other locations if we wanted to too. They may or may not cost more, but it is a possibility.

I can't believe it. Brent and I have an option for a 8-person place in Florida for a week!! You can't get a hotel room for two nights for the same price!!! We are stoked!!!!


Brent and I Jumping For Joy!!
(actually take last Spring Break in Florida)

Sunday, November 16, 2008

Wedding Party Brunch

Brent and I just finished serving a Sunday Brunch for our wedding party! The Boersma's were kind enough to let us use their kitchen and dining room for our little get-together. We decided to throw a brunch to say thank you to our friends and family for taking part in the months before and on the day of Brent's and My Wedding. It may not seem like much work now, but sooner or later I am sure we will be asking them to do a few or many things to help us out! :) We really wanted our whole wedding party to be here, but there is never going to be a time (before June) when everyone is going to be around, so only the Holland residents were able to attend. Kristin and David are in Colorado, and Bryan is in Washington. Max was planning on coming from Illinois, but did not take into account the time change, so he woke up a little too late. :(

Anyway...it was a lot of fun!! We had delicious food and fun convo! I updated everyone on the plans we have made so far, and wanted to let them know that we are open for suggestions. We want this day to be memorable not only for us, but for everyone else attending. (It probably will be the most expensive party I ever throw - so it better be good!!!) :)

If you see anything fun - send links, or comments my way!!

Bridesmaid Dress shopping is Harder then shopping for MY DRESS

Today my roommates and I spent a couple hours bridesmaid dress shopping. Although it was a quick trip, we were quite successful. At our first stop - September's Bride - we found three dresses that might work well together. Before, I thought that I wanted my bridesmaids to wear the exact same dress, however, now I am open to having two or three different styles; as long as they are the same color, tea length, and taffeta material. Here are the three dresses that we liked. I put up pics of the dresses on my lovely bridesmaids, and also one's that I found off the internet - if I could find a good one...Check out all my friends faces...they are almost as pretty as the dresses. :)



I think I have decided to have the colors of our wedding be White, Black and Bright Pink, so picture all the dresses in black. Here is a little closer look at each of the dresses...




Beek is wearing a B2 B9084 for $162
Iridescent taffeta gathers on bodice and a twist knot on the drop waist.




Benny is wearing a Belsoie L9068 for $195
Matte Taffeta v-neck both on the front and back, gathered on waist. It is long, however it comes in tea length as well.


This B2 B1043 that Koon is wearing is my favorite overall!
It is a sweet heart cut and costs $163
Gathered Iridescent Taffeta on bodice and waistline with back sash.


The nice thing about all these dresses is that, the girls could pick out what style fits their body best. It's also nice because the Belsoie & B2 brand you can choose what material you want and whether or not you want it floor length or tea-length. They are also all available at September's Bride, and since I bought me wedding gown there, the girls would get a %20 discount.

Anyway, moving on. Our second, and last stop was Diane Keith in Holland. The girls tried on a number of dresses and we only ended up really liking one out of the bunch. (After having the girls try on the B2 dress with the bow in the back, I decided that I did not like it as much) Here it is...



Lautz is wearing a Bill Levkoff 874 for $209
Tissue Taffeta. This tea-length gown features a gathered empire waist with pleated shoulder straps, soft gathers and pleats that accent the tube dress.

Although, we have not made up our minds as to what dress to buy, it was fun getting to hang with my roomies and let them try on different styles. Now, we for sure know which types work and which ones DON'T! :)

Sunday, November 9, 2008

ExCiTeMeNt!

For the past couple of months, I have been pretty busy and have not been able to spend substantial amounts of time planning my wedding. However, now that I am trying to pick a theme I find myself wanting to be on the internet ALL-DAY looking for fun ideas!! There are so many fun things out there!

Some fun sites that I have found are...
As you can see some of these have to do with the 1920's. Recently I have become interested in an art-deco theme for the wedding...romance, glamour, excitement, and more!!! Feathers in my hair, pears from my ears...How fun would that be???

So if you come across any fun websites/blogs please send them my way!!

Saturday, November 8, 2008

Wedding Wonderfulness!

What a wonderful day! While many Hope students have been quarantined in their room suffering the effects of the norovirus, I have been enjoying a day on the town! Unlike most parents, who canceled there parent's day weekend plans, my parents were not allowed to skip out on this fun-filled weekend. For the past two weeks I have devoted a lot of time to researching local florists and bakeries, and I made sure that I kept this weekend free to dedicate my time to wedding planning. So, my parents HAD to come. :)

We started off the day by eating a hearty breakfast served by Mr. and Mrs. B! We sure needed some food in our stomach because we were about to encounter a very long day.

Our first appointment was at 9am at Eastern Floral. I really enjoyed their shop, and it had a beautiful display of flowers, however, our meeting was not as enjoyable. Since this was my first time talking to a florist, I had no idea what to ask....AND to make things worse, I have not finalized my colors/theme yet. So, although she was nice, the Eastern Floral designer was quiet and did not help me form a clearer picture of what I am looking for.

Since we arrived lated at the first appointment - I lost the car keys - we also showed up late to our second appointment at 10am at Flowers Etc. Craig was very nice, and had a funny sense-of-humor. He was cracking jokes, and having a good time, however their computer crashed recently and they lost most of their pictures of past wedding flowers they have done. I saw a few pictures, but it would have been nice to see more pics of Dimnent and GHGC. However, Craig is one of the only accredited floral designers (meaning he takes classes every three years) and he seemed to have an eye for creativity. He helped me find a few flowers that I like. For example...I really like stephanotis with little pearls in the middle. I also liked his idea of having tea lights all along the front of Dimnent. Since it is such a big stage, it would be nice to try to bring us closer to the crowd.

The we hit up our third florist at 11:15am - Picket Fence Floral. Sarah, the women I met with there was REALLY nice, and super excited about my wedding. She has worked at Dimnent quite a bit and had some suggestions for flower arrangements on the stage. I loved that she was trying to help me form a vision! She also gave me an estimate of how much everything would cost based on what I was interested in. That was nice.

After going non-stop we took a little lunch break, then we rushed over to Second Floor Bakery for a little cake testing. Katie, the business manager and baker, was great! The pictures of the cakes were AMAZING - so creative - and the samples were to die for! She brought out champgne, yellow and chocolate cake samples, and Bavarian creme, strawberry and raspberry filling, and peanut butter, caramel and white frosting. Everything was sooooooo good! I loved the different kinds of flavors. And while talking to her, I got really excited about the possibility of making all the centerpieces at the reception hall 8 inch cakes. How fun would that be to have different kinds of cakes, all decorated differently, at each table?!? Then I would not need to spend millions of dollars on flowers, spend the $2/piece cutting fee, and everyone could serve themselves. It would be creative, and promote mingling from table to table to try the different flavors. Soooo excited!

After falling in love with Second Floor Bakery, I stopped by Indigo Floral on 8th Street. I did not have an appointment but I wanted to see some of their work. I was able to look through the wedding albums, and the pictures were beautiful! Julie - the designer - is VERY creative!! After thinking more about my colors I plan on going back there and talking to her about what she envisions for my wedding. :)

Then I ran across the street for my 3pm appointment at September's Bride and ORDERED my wedding dress...Justin Alexander 8358. I also tried on a teal bridesmaid dress (which unfortunately looks bright blue in pictures) and I went to Diane Keith to try on the B2 bridesmaid dress I like. I am hoping to take some of my bridesmaids out in the next couple weeks to try on a few dresses.

Then we ended our wedding blitz at Creations by Marcia - a local bakery. Marcia, one of the owners, was ADORABLE!! She has been in the wedding cake business for 34 years and works night and day with her husband, and their one other worker. After starting her day at 2am, she made time to meet with me and my parents at 5pm, after her last delivery. She is a VERY busy women, and I can tell why...she is soooo cute and nice to her customers. I asked her how many weddings they do in one weekend, and she said that there was one weekend where they made cakes for 11 weddings!!!! She also explained that there have been nights when her and her husband don't go home at night. She brought out pieces of cake for my parents, Brent and I and little samples of some frosting and fillers. All of the samples were good, but not as high of quality as Second Floor Bakery (in my opinion). So, although I loved her, and her prices were awesome, I was a little worried about being the "11th cake" on my wedding day. I wish I could give her my business, but I think Second Floor Bakery suits me better.

So, as you can see, we kept pretty busy today! After eating so much sugar we hit up applebee's and got some salty chips. Then we hung out at the Boersma's and played Balderdash. It was a lot of fun hanging out with both my parents and Brent's parents. I am sooo excited about all the fun out families are going to share in the next year!!! Until then....I have some more decisions to make... :)

Monday, November 3, 2008

WEDDING PARTY

After months of already being engaged, Brent and I have officially finalized who we would like to have in our wedding party! Check it out:

Kristin Nevins (sister) - Maid of Honor
Rachel Dieleman (sister-in-law) - Bridesmaid
Alli VanBeek (friend) - Bridesmaid
Caitlin Lautz (friend) - Bridesmaid
Katie Bennett (friend) - Bridesmaid
Sarah Koon (friend) - Bridesmaid

David Boersma (brother) - Best Man
Bryan Boersma (brother) - Groomsman
Max Lamade (brother-in-law) - Groomsman
Ross Dieleman (brother-in-law) - Groomsman
Alex Griffith (friend) - Groomsman
Michael Leman (friend) - Groomsman

And since these people are extra special to us, and we really appreciate them joining us on our very special day, we decided to host a brunch for everyone who is in town! The Brunch will be held on Sunday, November 16th at 12:30pm. And the Boersma's are allowing us to have it at their place...so we can get away from our off-campus houses. :) (I wish everyone could be there...at least Max is coming in for the weekend!!!!) It should be a lot of fun!

Brent and I spent all day Saturday making them invitations. It was a lot of fun, however, Brent did not seem too keen on continuing the project and hand-making all of our wedding invitations as well! I think he used about 2/3 of his creative juices just on the 12 cards we made. :) Here were the different cards we made...


Everyone who is in Holland, has been given their cards, and have gladly accepted. And everyone who is out of state, there invitation is in the mail! Everything is coming together!! How exciting!